Saturday, October 31, 2009

Halloween


My Nephew Matthew

Holidays are fun but being able to celebrate them with children is the best.  Above is a picture of Matthew.  He's carving a sugar pumpkin I gave his Mom, my sister Claire, on her birthday.  This morning she sent me this picture of him carving it!

There are many many benefits to living on Quill Hill but they don't extend to many trick or treaters making the treck up our driveway.  The incredible thing to me is that as I write this I'm able to know that Matthew is carving this pumpkin.

Phone calls used to just mean conversations--now they can include images too.  Getting this picture this morning made me feel like I was visiting Claire, Andrew and their boys and sharing in the holiday together.

My favorite wake up greeting ever was from Matthew.  I was staying overnight at Claire's house in Boston, and it was very early morning, maybe even before 6 am.  Matthew was getting dressed and as Claire was chasing him, he ran into the room where I was sleeping and noticed me on the bed.  At this point he loudly exclaimed with a huge smile on his face, " Oh Hi!!!!!"  Best morning hello ever!

Yesterday, I got this wonderful email from my god-daughter and neice Fayrah:

dear nouna,
i am going to be a witch for halloween, and anna is going to be a pumpkin, and we don't know what theo is going to be yet! but we hope you have a good halloween tomorrow!
love,
fayrah


Fayrah as a witch & Anna Claire as pumpkin

These children have made this year's halloween so precious.  As an adult it's sometimes easy to just dismiss the holidays as one more day.  I'm so thankful that I can share these times with them even though we live 3 hours away!

Friday, October 30, 2009

Date Night at the Ninety Nine



For the past month or so once a week Geo takes me out to eat.  We go to the 99 (see picture above taken last night).  The waitress knows us.  We sit in the same booth.

We sit side by side.  It's something we've always done,  in the seven years we've been together.  Geo likes to order a Jameson's "martini".   I like to order a hot chocolate or coke with lemon. 

When they see us they smile and bring Geo his drink without him having to say what he'd like.  It's great that they remember our preferences. 



I think of my sister Claire laughing at me when I order my favorite prime rib (it's on special Thursday nights).  Some things really don't change.  I love meat and mashed potatoes and corn always have always will!



We share very funny conversations together Geo and I.  We like to laugh.  We also notice we are getting older and have to strain sometimes to read the fine print on the television  displaying CNN Headlines. 

On one of our nights out Geo read a headline very loudly incorrectly. The conversation went like this:

Geo reads very emphatically to me, in his booming voice:

"Look Sweetie, Robots have bombed a building in India!"

"Um Babe, that says Rebels not Robots!" I hastily reply.

It can be hard to hear sometimes in the 99.  So sometimes we have to speak loudly just to hear ourselves.  This is a marked contrast to the very deep silence evenings bring to Quill Hill.

This made us laugh a lot and others laughed too.  It is so fun to be able to laugh together.  Life can be so serious sometimes. 

The 99 does not serve haute cuisine but the food is inexpensive and good.  The atmosphere is cozy, casual, and inviting.  The people around us eating and our waitresses are friendly. 

Most important Geo and I can be together outside of our home.  We talk about things that don't involve the maintenance of the house.  We rediscover things that we like about each other and we have a chance to see and be around other people.

I like to interact with people this way--casually, relaxed.  Jess, our waitress asks us about our week and sits down opposite us to chat.  She is leaving soon to have her baby. It's due in two weeks.  It's amazing how a smile and a genuine interest in another's life leaves you feeling alive and happy.  Small and ordinary things are treasures:)

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Simple Things

"But where our hearts truly lie is in peace and quiet and good tilled earth. For all hobbits share a love of things that grow. And yes no doubt to others our ways seem quaint, but today of all days it has been brought home to me that it is no bad thing to celebrate a simple life."  From J.R.R. Tolkien's Lord of the Rings



Garden Mum

I have just one houseplant.  I'd like to have more but have a lot to learn about keeping them alive inside the house.  Starting with just one and keeping it healthy and alive seems like a reasonable goal. 

Taking care of the plant today reminded me of my Yiayia Vassilike.  She had one room in her home dedicated just to plants.  It had tall windows and plenty of sun. 

In the very very early morning --6am or so she would wake up and go into that room to water the plants.  I remember her touching their leaves and complimenting them, telling each of them how beautiful they were.  It was amazing to see how well her plants flourished. 

Musings on Eternity

Last night I couldn't sleep--so while I was awake in the wee hours of the morning I came across this wonderful story and thought I would share it here.  It's called:




Ursa my best friend outside today


An old man and his dog were walking along a country road, enjoying the scenery, when it suddenly occurred to the man that he was actually dead.

He remembered dying, and that his dog too had been dead for many years. He wondered where the road would lead them, and continued onward.

After a while, they came to a high, white stone wall along one side of the road. It looked like fine marble. At the top of a long hill a tall white arch that gleamed in the sunlight broke it. When he was standing before it, he saw a magnificent gate in the arch that looked like mother of pearl, and the street that led to the gate looked like pure gold.

He was pleased that he had finally arrived at heaven, and the man and his dog walked toward the gate. As he got closer, he saw someone sitting at a beautifully carved desk off to one side. When he was close enough, he called out, "Excuse me, but is this heaven?"

"Yes, it is, sir," the man answered.

"Wow! Would you happen to have some water?" the man asked.

"Of course, sir. Come right in, and I'll have some ice water brought right up." The gatekeeper gestured to his rear, and the huge gate began to open.

"I assume my friend can come in?" the man asked, gesturing toward his dog.

But the reply was "I'm sorry, sir, but we don't accept pets."

The man thought about it then thanked the gatekeeper, turned back toward the road, and continued in the direction he had been going.

After another long walk, he reached the top of another long hill, and he came to a dirt road that led through a farm gate.

There was no fence, and it looked as if the gate had never been closed, as grass had grown up around it. As he approached the gate, he saw a man just inside, sitting in the shade of a tree in a rickety old chair, reading a book.

"Excuse me!" he called to the reader. "Do you have any water?"

"Certainly, There's a pump over there," the man said, pointing to a place that couldn't be seen from outside the gate. Come on in and make yourself at home."

"How about my friend here?" the traveler gestured to the dog "He's welcome too, and there's a bowl by the pump," he said.

They walked through the gate and, sure enough, there was an old-fashioned hand pump with a dipper hanging on it and a bowl next to it on the ground. The man filled the bowl for his dog; he then took a long drink himself.

When both were satisfied, he and the dog walked back toward the man, who was sitting under the tree waiting for them, and asked, "What do you call this place?"

"This is heaven," was the answer.

"Well, that's confusing," the traveler said. "It certainly doesn't look like heaven, and there's another man down the road who said that place was heaven."

"Oh, you mean the place with the gold street and pearly gates?"

"Yes, it was beautiful."

"Nope. That's hell."

"Doesn't it offend you for them to use the name of heaven like that?"

"No. I can see how you might think so, but it actually saves us a lot of time. They screen out the people who are willing to leave their best friends behind."

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

The Grey Days

It's the sort of day outside that reminds one of Tolkien almost.  There's a grey misty quality where the clouds block out the mountain views and you can almost see nazgul coming out of the gloom.  Thankfully, the wind is howling so we won't have to run the generator today.


Geo's shadow and our generator

Running the generator is what happens usually during "grey days" when there is no sun and even less wind.  It gives us a carbon footprint that's unavoidable if we want to have power.  These low power days are fun because they create the sort of balancing act that goes like this: 

1.  Can't use the microwave while the heat is on.
2.  Wait to wash dishes so the pump for the well doesn't come on ditto with the shower.
3.  Turn off heat and put on sweaters.
4.  No lights on--it's nice when you have candles.
5.  Warm coffee on the gas stove (need to get myself another coffee press).
6.  No cooking using the oven since it uses a lot of power.
7.  Limit power use to laptop ie: no using the TV to watch movies.
8.  Wait to run the washer and do laundry.
9.  Toast bread on the stove instead of in the toaster--note to self replace tongs:)


These are all things that are second nature after 4 years on Quill Hill, at first they were very annoying--now they just remind us to be aware of what we're using for power.

Having six dogs that don't like to go outside when it's grey, rainy, and cold out means it's pretty lively in the house, never quiet or boring in the least.



Picture taken of our view today


The most outstanding thing that "grey days" give me is a deep awareness of God and the limits of humanity.  This is a dimension of life that I didn't notice to when living in the busy urban world where there were so many noisy distractions.   In the quiet contemplation of creation, the power of the wind, the music the trees make when their leaves fall, the dancing of the puppies outside with their Mother Ursa I feel so aware of life.  It's profound and mysterious and it leaves me awed.  The emphasis on living versus material consumption and the constant thankfullness for the littlest of things like a hot cup of coffee or the excited leaping of dogs playing tag ensures that every day is a happy one full of gratitude and joy even if it happens to be grey.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

How Spruce Knob became Quill Hill

My husband Geo and I bought this beautiful property 4 years ago in October 2005.  We were really city people and not what you would call, "greenies".  He'd always wanted a driveway a mile long and I always wanted to live without neighbors.  I've never been a fan of people dropping by unannounced and often at very inconvenient times!  We saw this house and these views and jumped right in with both feet.  The house and its surrounding 11 acre property were called "Spruce Knob".


Our family at the time consisted of two wonderful Min-Pins-- Salsa and Solomon (pictured at left).  In 2006 after deciding the commute was too long I stopped working and we aquired a Schipperke-- Ursa.  What a blissful creature-- in any event fast forward to late 2008 where a miss timing in the spay and neutering cycle led to Ursa's pregnacy and our family increased to include three Minnerke's or Schipperpins - Weaselle, Gizmo, and Keela pictured with Geo below right . 



With now six dogs and plenty of free woods in which to roam, few neighbors (none closer then a mile) there are plenty of porcupines. As a matter of fact there is an abundance of these creatures. Each of our dogs has been quilled at least once. Sadly Solomon the father of the Minnerke's has been quilled multiple times. He is a little challenged in some areas ie: porcupine avoidance-- but we love him nonetheless:)






Solomon without quills!



Salsa with Quills



We decided to rename "Spruce Knob" Quill Hill hoping that by paying hommage to these porcupines in this way will prevent our dogs from being further traumatized--like Salsa was in this picture.